Everyone has experienced emotional, verbal, sexual, or physical violence. Sometime somewhere you have been yelled at, hit, humiliated, betrayed or violated. When there is strong emotional charge during the abuse, there is an exchange of a part of your body’s emotional energy. For example, say you are being yelled at and you are deeply hurt by the words. At some moment a piece of the anger from the other person embeds itself into you but a piece of your anguish embeds itself into the other person. Usually I see these pieces as round black balls in the upper chest area but I have seen them throughout the body and brain. Or you may witness another’s suffering; maybe your mother cried a lot and you deeply desired to end her pain. You can literally take some of that pain into yourself but she gets some of your anxiety. No matter how soul transfer loss occurs you when you lose a piece (p-i-e-c-e) of yourself, you lose your peace (p-e-a-c-e.)
Later what happens is that there are times when you find yourself experiencing emotions that feel out of character. You say to yourself, “That isn’t me like me; I don’t act like that.” In the case of the person raged at, he would find inappropriate times when he exploded in anger and would be confused as to why. In the case of the person whose Mother wept a lot, he would be depressed for no reason and wonder why he could not escape the depression.
I identify what I see, ask God/Creator/Divinity to take the embedded pieces up into the light of unconditional Love to be cleansed and purified and to heal the rightful owners so that when the rightful owners are healed and ready his or her piece will return to them. This is not always instantaneous and may not occur during the healing session yet the very expulsion of the others piece brings quick quiet calming.
Also the trauma of a past life in which emotional body loss occurs can be released. It doesn’t matter when or what happened or how often, the unconditional light of Divine Love can release it.
Curses, To Be or Not To Be
In the book The Four Agreements, Don Miguel Ruiz says when we think negative thoughts about ourselves or others, we are all black magicians. These judgmental, jealous, angry, or otherwise hurtful thoughts he calls “poison.” From my experience this mental poison backed by intense emotional charge produces a curse. When in a fit of anger, you think or say, “You always fail at everything,” or “You never do anything right,” you are effectively cursing that person and that person may be you.
A curse is an action that awaits being triggered by the exact conditions needed for the negative results desired for you or someone else by another or many other human beings; in other words a curse is like a virus that is within you waiting for the perfect conditions to awaken it from its dormant state. The perfect conditions may be a job that would bring you both financial success and personal satisfaction. When you get that job, things begin to fall apart…your personal life becomes so miserable that you eventually lose your job. Then life quiets down again and things become good. Ten years pass and another wonderful job is yours and the pattern starts all over again as the curse enlivens once more.
In the ancient past there were people who chose to become black magicians. These individuals deliberately placed great energy on well thought-out curses. This is Hollywood’s idea of how you get a curse. Regardless when or how, some curses placed on you or your ancestor in another lifetime may still be effect today. The light of God’s Love removes these as easily as it removes everything else that is not Love.
It is an unfortunate truth that today there are still those, some in Voodoo, who think going to someone to purchase a curse placed on another is all right. Both the purchaser and the placer of the curse are hooking themselves to the karma of the person who is being cursed and that means for centuries, not just this lifetime. It also means a magnifying of problems, ill health, inconveniences and consequences of a negative nature for the curser and purchaser of the curse. There is no escape from the law of karma. What you give out you will receive.
And a final note… Curses open the door to negative entities living through you. You may think that you put a curse on someone and you can protect yourself; this is an illusion. The very thoughts you have no longer will be yours because you have effectively gotten yourself possessed, even if it is just a lowly demon and not a prince of hell. You have become the big sucker for you have lost your autonomy and given over your free will to a life force of far less beauty than yours. Remember there is nothing you or anyone could ever say think, do or be or not say, think, do or be that would ever separate you from Divine Love. God’s love for you and all souls is ever present, unconditional and ever lasting.